Idealism is a trap that only fools and those claiming virtue can fall into and believe in its existence. Man is created to be tested and to be tried, and the test is the ultimate in success and failure, and experience is the end of gain and loss, and between those degrees is deep learning and understanding of this world.Experience is a legitimate right from God to confirm freedom of choice and fairness of reckoning.Perfection is not a human attribute, it is a divine attribute. Imperfection is a path that leads us to know the perfect.Life is full of experiences, adventures, many stories, and all we have to do is fight it with the spirit of a lover warrior who prides himself on gain and learns from loss in acceptance and serenity.   Rania Tharwat